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Thursday, March 01, 2007
After having some feedbacks from ppl, i have more to write bout the relationship topic. Relationship is like a game which involves a certain amount of risk. U wan the taste of it, u haf to pay the price. The sweetness of it, the heart-breaking of it. The slower the progress will ultimately make it last longer. In my opinion there are 9 stages of relationship for us not counting marriage as a factor. Its jus like planting a seedling n enjoying the bearing of the fruits.
1)Getting the seed into position. Find ur target, finding out more bout him/her.
2)Plant the seed n water. Hints are slowly dropped to the other party.
3)Plant fully grown already. Drop more hints n wait for the other's response.
4)Fruit is out already. The other party gives u the green light to try out.
5)Harvest. Chat more n go out often, slowly removing the barrier between both parties.
6)The taste of the fruit. The sweetest point, holding hands, hugging etc.
7)Fruit turns sour. Getting abit sian of ea other, losing trust.
8)Fruit start to rot. Sick n tired of each other, tinking that ea other do not give each other enuff space.
9)Dumped to rubbish bin. Find a "good" reason to initiate the break-up, impossible to continue.
The reason that ppl will feel heart-break in the process is when u aint able to keep up the pace of the other person. While u may be still enjoying the sweetness of it(stage 6) the other person might already be sick of u(stage 8). Then when he/she reaches stage 9, which is the break-up process, u feel that he/she done u wrong. I wont say that salvaging a relationship is impossible when a break-up is initiated, its just that the chances are VERY low. Only in tv dramas when they can break, patch-up n other random sh*ts. Nowadays, to save time n taste the sweetness ASAP, we jump to stage 5/6 as our starting point instead. This way, the relationship is bound to fail but for the taste of sweetness, who actually cares? Face reality, in this era, how many actually go for eternity love?is it possible without marriage to tie them down? To be continued...post too long read liao will slp 1.
Note: For those who tink i m toking cock in this topic, jolly well f*ck off my blog. Ur understanding is very much appreciated. Hopefully i haf more to write bout this tml.

Signed off by DreamChazer on 8:42 PM