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Wednesday, February 28, 2007
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How exactly to show care?? By sending msgs?? From good morning to nitez? I kinda feel that too much of these will be irritating, from caring to nagging. Different people has different point of views of this case, some like others to keep on msging bout wat they doing n other stuff for their sense of security, while some dislike due to nagging. Is there really no way to lengthen a relationship? Is it jus a matter of time b4 both parties get sick of ea other, in the process picking out ea other's bad points? Its always sweet in the beginning, sour in the middle n bitter at the end. Its no different from fruits, from freshly picked to rotten. Can this "procedure" be changed?? I seriously doubt so. Humans are selfish by nature, we only know how to pick the 1 to our liking n throw when the "flavour" becomes tasteless to u. Somehow when 1 party initiates a break-up, the best thing for the other party to do is to let this relationship go gracefully. Its pointless to carry on by forcing the unwilling party to carry on.(Tis was the answer given to dezhong when he asked me wat if i was to be initiated a break-up). I personally feels that ppl use marriage n babies to "lock" each other. Perhaps thats a way they tink they can stay 4ever, pretty sad when people actually uses these 2 factors for their future. However, my thoughts haven reach this far. So in summary, humans are selfish creatures that only wan to taste the sweetness of relationship n throw it away when the taste is bland.Feelings fade as time flies.
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